Why SMC
Take a look at the paths our members take to find the right relationships and what we do to help them achieve it.
Want to be more in control
Profile manager
With our photo manger, you`re in charge. You can decide who can see your profile photos, albums without alienating anyone. Besides, you can set prererence so you can only be contacted by those who match your search criteria. The choice is yours
"Incognito Mode"
Incognito mode is your online dating superpower. It lets you view other people's profiles discreetly-they won't know you've visited-and ensures you only appear to people you know you're interested in.
Verificator
Verifies your profile and give others a reason to trust you
Make your profile magnet
Photobooth
Create and showcase your photographic interests
Create unlimited photos
The more photos, the greater the chances of being contacted by singles who share the same interests as you.
Equal interests = Things in common = Greater icebreakers
Profile cleansing
Update your profile with clean, pristine facts.
Makes your profile shine and be attractive to the singles community
Helps you engage with your potential matches
The more search criteria you complete, the greater your chances that our profile-cleansing tool will make your profile stand out
Boost your visibility
Register with us to create your perfect online dating profile. Carefully craft your self-description to stand out from the crowd.
We have also designed resources to help your profile shine, gain more exposure, and attract attention from the community.
We'll also make sure it's visible on the user's website. That means more people can see you, and you have more chances to meet someone interesting.
Trust and safety based on combination of 4 tools
No matter what kind of relationship you are after, we want to you to feel comfortbale, stay safe and have fun, meet serious and commited singles who're ready for serious relationhsip, even marriage.
Our verificator verifies your profile and give other members the reason to trust you online. If you feel uncomfortable about a profile or a message you receive, you can always block or report a member to our moderators.
We value your privacy
How to find your special someone
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Tell us who you are!
Register for free
Talk about yourself. The key is to be natural, honest, and spontaneous. A few lines of self-description are enough to make an impression.
Why not add humor, too?.
Be precise: the more search criteria you complete, the greater your chances of being contacted by singles who share your interests.
We'll make sure it shows up and is visible to our members. That means more people will see your profile, and you'll have more chances to meet the right person for you. Share photos that reflect your personality. Create an album or a photo booth, or both, to showcase your interests.
Connect
Every day, thousands of singles log on for love. Stop waiting and start connecting NOW. Find a great date, love, a committed relationship, and much more on SMC.
Be suggestive
I will pick you up by bike to
have a glass if you like...
-Tall, bearded guys
-Men who love cooking
-Getting in touch with your
wild side..
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Find the right person
Messaging
SMC is a fun, relaxing community platform where you can meet interesting people either online or at our get-togethers. We'll offer you profiles that match your interests, location, and search criteria.
You can also get to know them better by reaching out through our safe messaging platform before you take the plunge and meet them in person.
Empower
WHAT IF....
You have the power to choose your perfect match!
Get matched
Our matching system ensures that you're matched effectively with highly compatible members.
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Discuss
Communicate
The sky's the limit when you join our dating services.
You can always use our app or website to communicate with your matches.
Stuck in the middle?
Don't know how to jump-start the conversation? Start by sharing the small details that attracted you to their dating profile, discussing shared interests, or being creative and finding something to share.
Read our advice article on how to make your profile as attractive as possible and how to break the ice.
Stop waiting, and start connecting.
Stop waiting, and start connecting
Tips and advice
The first communication with other singles you're interested in is always the hardest. We're here to support and guide you with expert advice at every turn of your love-finding journey, whether you're building your dating process or beyond.
Participate. Mingle. Match. Chat. Date
Come and meet other singles at one of our dedicated activities.
Have fun
You're in the right place if you're out there looking for a special someone who shares your life values. No matter what kind of relationship you're after, we want you to feel comfortable and have fun while you're here.
Broad visibility of your profile
Shine
Promote and enhances member's profile
Put your profile in front of those great local single men and woman
Makes you get noticed online.
Get 10X more activitty
Receive More letters. More visits. More matches.
Get the SMC mobile app
Available for both iPhone and Android devices, the latest edition of the SMC dating app is easy to download and simple to use. It offers an easy, enjoyable online dating experience wherever you go, helping you find people who match your search criteria and share your interests and outlook on life.
Download the app and put the power of SMC in the palm of your hand. With online dating, you never know who might be out there looking for someone just like you.
Besides, it's never been easier to meet new people who are ready to share their experiences and more.
Search for the one
Make your intention known
People who join our dating service choose SMC because they're ready to start a real story. So how do you make sure someone you meet online understands you're serious, and how do you set those expectations?
The secret is to be your real self, be kind, and be kind. It all starts with writing a profile that reflects your personality.
Show that you care
Don't just write about yourself; when writing your profile, think about the person you would like to be with in a long-term relationship.
Looks matter, for sure, but you'll probably choose someone real, considerate, interested in you, and able to make you laugh. There's nothing wrong with that because it's the most natural thing of all: we want to be with people who make us happy.
When writing your online dating profile, make sure you're the kind of person you'd want to be. Try not to be self-centered; instead, make it clear that you're interested in other people too and what you'd like to do together with your date. What do you value in people? Show that you're great company, not just someone who expects others to want to be with you.
Be a good listener
When you're talking to your date, whether online or eventually in person, don't be afraid to listen more than you talk.
Be interested in what your date shares about themselves. Ask questions, smile, and laugh. Focus on the interests and experiences you have in common, and don't get hung up on the negatives.
If you seem like someone people want to be around, they'll want to be around you.
Get local and find singles near you
Wherever you are, people are waiting to meet you! Our website features serious, mature, and committed singles seeking a relationship, even marriage.
We can help match you with highly compatible local men or women who meet your criteria.
Still not convinced? Register and see for yourself!
How to find the right one
Make your words count
Many singles have given up dating altogether. It's too frustrating and exhausting because of the sheer volume of casual dating and hookup culture. Our members are serious and sincere and are not here to play games or hook up. They're seeking more authentic encounters and long-term relationships.
The key to this new demand for authenticity is words. Yes, even in the instant world of online dating. Words are what really count.
Your self-description
In dating, words can break the ice and even make it possible for you to introduce yourself to a single you find interesting. First impressions count because words make you stand out from the crowd. Words also help you draw your match's attention, and the first words you exchange online can make all the difference.
Let's start with the words you use to describe yourself on your profile. They say a photo is worth more than a thousand words, but our singles have told us that a profile description matters more to them than photos. On a serious dating site, it's especially important to take the time to make your written presentation as strong as possible and to reveal your true self honestly and carefully.
Create good atmosphere
Looks really aren't everything, and when you're finally face-to-face, you can't hide behind your screen anymore! But rest assured, people generally prefer good humor to good looks on a first date, and they want someone they can have an interesting conversation with.
The most important thing is to be yourself and stay as natural as possible.
What have you got to lose? Stop waiting, and start connecting
REGISTER
Get ready for a real story
Our members are waiting to write their own love story. Tell yours. We are listening
Eva and James
I would recommend smartcommitment.com to anyone. Before meeting James, if we had passed each other in our daily lives, I might not have considered going out with him. Fortunately, we met this way, and I got to know him well before we even met. Now, we cannot stand being apart.
Christiane and Karl
Our first phone conversation lasted about five hours, and we had several more after that. By the time we decided to meet for dinner, I already liked him as a person and knew we would have fun together. It was just a matter of a smart, committed meeting! I kept wondering, 'He is a country boy, and I am a city girl. How will this go?' Our first date lasted seven hours, and we couldn't get enough of each other.
Suzanne and Thomas
When Thomas and I first started corresponding on the smartcommitment site, it was immediately clear we had a great deal in common. After a few phone calls, we arranged a first date. I was so eager to meet him that I canceled a date with someone else! We talked for hours over dinner that evening and then took a walk in a riverside park. It was difficult to say goodbye that night.